and hair stylists, there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to doctors.
How many of these statements apply to your doctor?
Your doctor listens to you.
Does this: Repeats what you’ve said to ensure you’ve been heard correctly; considers your preferences when making recommendations
Not this: Cuts you off when you speak
Your doctor takes your concerns seriously.
Does this: Tells you why you shouldn’t worry about a particular symptom; orders tests or refers you to a specialist for more help if needed
Not this: Says what you’re feeling is “all in your head” or says, “I don’t see anything wrong” and leaves it at that
Your doctor doesn’t tell you what to do.
Does this: Respects what’s important to you and sees you as the final decision-maker
Not this: Ignores your preferences and advises that you do as they say
Your doctor doesn’t make you feel judged.
Does this: Accepts you for who you are; no eye-rolling, no sighing; offers a safe space to be who you truly are – kids or no kids, sexual preferences, gender identity and all
Not this: Makes judgments about your birth control choices or sexual activities
Your doctor instills confidence in you.
Does this: Leaves you feeling as if your doctor has a firm grasp of what’s best for you
Not this: Seems unsure about the latest guidance and how it applies to your care
Your doctor appreciates other viewpoints.
Does this: Appreciates when you do your homework and arrive to your appointment well-informed
Not this: Seems threatened when you ask questions
If you find yourself agreeing with these statements, you’ve likely found a doctor that suits you well.
Source: https://mcpress. mayoclinic.org/
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