September 7, 1938 – May 12, 2025
James L. Smithson (Jimmie), 86 passed away unexpectedly on May 12, 2025 in Charleston, S.C.
James L. Smithson, known affectionately as Jimmie, was born on Sept. 7, 1938, in Quincy, Mass. He lived a full and impactful life, leaving behind a legacy of love, generosity, and dedication. Jimmie made his home in both Cambridge, Mass., and Dataw Island, S.C., where he touched many lives.
He was the beloved husband of Lois Gagne Smithson for 63 years, a union marked by deep love and unwavering partnership. Jimmie was a devoted father to his three daughters: Elisa Smithson Frederick and her husband Erik of Massachusetts and South Carolina; Andrea Smithson Dargie and her husband William of Massachusetts; and Melanie Smithson-Hayes and her husband Robert of Florida. He was also a proud grandfather to six cherished grandchildren: Colin and Michael Hayes, Maddie and Chrissy Frederick, Kyle and Aaron Dargie.
Jimmie was the oldest of four siblings. He was predeceased by his sister Arlene Raftery (Joe) and is survived by his brother Arthur Smithson (Denise) of California and his sister Marilyn Borrelli (Steve) of South Carolina, as well as numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews, all of whom he adored.
A graduate of Duxbury High School, Bentley University, and New England School of Law, Jimmie had a remarkable career. He served as a senior partner for over 50 years at Tyler & Reynolds P.C., one of Boston’s oldest law firms, specializing in probate law. He found great fulfillment in helping others navigate the complexities of law with kindness and integrity.
Beyond his professional life, he was a veteran of the United States Army. He volunteered in many organizations. Jimmie was passionate about many things. He and Lois traveled the world together, embarking on more than 10 world cruises and countless other adventures. A former 4H farmer, Jimmie raised and showed many animals with great pride. He also had a lifelong love of gardening, cultivating both beautiful flowers and bountiful vegetables. His passions extended to golfing, sailing, and attending concerts, where he enjoyed the joy of both art and nature.
Jimmie’s generosity was boundless. He supported many local charities, both in Massachusetts and South Carolina, and was deeply involved in the communities he called home. Known for his kindness, thoughtfulness, and warm spirit, he was someone who many people looked up to and admired.
Jimmie is deeply missed by all who knew him. His memory will live on through Lois, his daughters, his grandchildren, and the countless lives he touched.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the following organizations:
• Bentley University (Massachusetts)
• Brigham and Women’s Hospital (Massachusetts)
• Beaufort Memorial Hospital (South Carolina)
• Beaufort Symphony Youth Orchestra (South Carolina)
A Celebration of Life will be held at St. Francis Church, Charlestown, Mass., on Saturday, July 19, 2025, at 10 a.m. The family will have a private burial later in the year.
